Contemplative Christmas

Sunday, December 22, 2024

Advent: Joy, Day 1

Reading:

“We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose.” [1]

Reflection:

Joy, the fourth theme of Advent, contrasts with happiness, which is dependent on circumstances over which we have little control. Joy is a deeply-engrained sense of well-being and worthiness that exists apart from circumstances. Many marriage ceremonies include a vow to remain faithful for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part. Joy, like a good marriage, does not falter in difficult times. Author James Finley says that God is a God who protects us from nothing yet sustains us in all things. The question is not whether we will be happy with every situation. The question is whether we will remain faithful through difficult situations. Joy is only possible by knowing and trusting that the worst thing is never the only or the last thing.

Joy often springs from a deep faith that God is always with and for us. Joy blossoms as we accept that life will forever be a mix of desirable and undesirable experiences. The apostle Paul’s assurance that “…all things work together for good…” gives reason for us to be joyful, regardless of our circumstances. We know and have experienced that God specializes in weaving beautiful tapestries from ugly threads.

Joy finds wonder in all aspects of life, even and especially when life is difficult. Joyful people have less need to try to control their environment or others because they trust that every circumstance is one piece of a larger puzzle made more beautiful and meaningful by the parts most difficult to piece together.

The Joy of Advent is an invitation to Rejoice – regardless of our circumstances.

Closing Meditation:

Quietly reflect on a personal experience that was unpleasant but that led to a positive change.

Journal the thoughts and feelings that arise.

This daily series, Contemplative Christmas, is replacing my weekly Life Notes until January 6, 2025, when my weekly blog will resume. The thoughts expressed here are mine. To engage with me: ghildenbrand@outlook.com.

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[1] Romans 8:28